~Rules What Are Those~

Life is crazy right. You grow up over the years and you are taught by your parents and elders that you should "follow the rules" or you will get in trouble. Rules are put in place to keep you under control or to keep you from running a muck as some say. It is so interesting to me that as you grow up into the world you grow and you change and you began to really start thinking for self.

Rules that were taught to you by your family may or may not be so important anymore to you because you have your own family now and you basically do what works for you. The interesting thing that I see so often is that God forbid you go against any rule that was taught to you when you were younger, and you are around your family or another person that grew up the same way as you. Boy oh boy just watch how things get real. Real judgmental that is. Sad but true. Or at least that is my experience and a few of my family and friends experiences so I can only speak from what I have encountered.

Going against what you were taught growing up well that is like setting yourself on fire almost because the reaction is like "how dare you go against what you were taught". So many people are scared to fully live their life because they are afraid of backlash and what the world will think of them. I say live your life for you and yours and live and be unapologetic because you only have one life to live so make you happy and not the world.

It is okay to live and to grow and to want to try new things that is how you feed your mind and not live in a box. Live outside the box and make your own rules that fits and caters to your life for you and your family.