~Playing The Victim~

We all know a person or people who are amazing at playing the victim. Some are aware of what they are doing and some are not. Some are victims by default because of traumatic events that have happened in their younger years that they may have not gotten over. Regardless of how a person plays the victim I will speak from experience of being in the midst of this particular energy say that it is one of the most draining energies to come across. I have friends and family who have people around them who they deal with from work or school etc and they have to be in the midst of these people so they are desperate to find a way to cope with these energies. To be honest when in the midst of the victim energy I have found it effective to ignore the person when they start up their “whine fest”. A whine fest is a person who cries or whines to get their way or to make you feel sorry for them so that in the end they feel like they have won. I do honestly believe people who play the victim fee...